Here is the best collection of 101 things to talk about with your girlfriend in 2021. Want to build a strong connection and get closer to her? Use these things and see how magic happens in your love life.
101 Things to Talk About with Your Girlfriend
1). SHOPPING – Shopping is a girl’s best therapy to relieve stress and enjoy. When you talk about shopping she’ll love it. Ask her for the places she loves shopping from and talk about various famous shops for her. She’ll definitely love you if you are gonna go for shopping with her and carry her bags.
Shopping Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
1). Do you like to shop?
2). Are You A Shopaholic Or No?
3). Are You Are A Compulsive, Impulsive Shopper?
4). Do you like going window shopping?
2). TALK ABOUT HER INTERESTS – Talk about things she likes doing when she’s got plenty of time on her hands. She’ll feel free to tell about her hobbies. The common hobbies you share will create more interest and pick up your conversation to next level. Discuss about your favorite movies and games and shows. Talking about her interests will make her feel that you are interested in her life.
Talk about Her Interest:
5). Do You Have A Nickname? What Is It?
6). Do you have a role model?
7). Can you dance? Do you like dancing?
8). What are the things that you would want to do alone?
9). Do you have many friends? Are you in touch with friends from school/college? How close are you?
10). What was your first impression about me?
11). What according to you is the root cause of every problem in a relationship?
12). Have You Ever Written A Love Letter?
13). Do You Love Old Movies?
14). Are You Good At Making People Smile?
15). Have you ever been on a blind date?
16). How is your relationship now with your siblings?
17). How religious are you? Do you pray regularly?
18). Favorite thing to spend money on?
19). Ideal romantic dinner?
20). What is your most treasured possession?
21). How do you deal with stress?
22). What are your pet peeves?
23). Do you smoke, drink, or use drugs? If so, why? Do you want to quit?
24). How do you spend a typical Saturday night?
25). What is your favorite color?
26). What is your favorite food?
27). Are you spontaneous, or do you always need to have a plan?
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3). GOSSIPS – Daily gossips is something girl’s excel in and expect no guy to talk so. Be that guy and talk about things in her life , be it her friends , movies , work , some hot and spicy things going on in the college. And interact with her like a girl . She’ll find you like a soul sister.
Gossips Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
28). Do you have any scars I don’t know about?
29). What is your favorite makeup item?
30). What’s the first thing you notice about guys?
31). Name two things you consider yourself to be really bad at.
32). If you had to live in the arctic what kind of an animal would you be?
33). What do you like about your job?
34). What do you dislike about your job?
35). What are the things that remind you of me?
36). What are your feelings about our first kiss?
37). What is the biggest surprise of your life?
38). What is that one thing about our relationship that makes you the happiest?
39). What is your definition of emotional infidelity? How would you take it if it happened to us?
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4). SMILE – The best thing a girl can wear is her smile. Talk about her innocent and cute curve. Tell her that a glimpse of this smile makes your day. Ask her to keep smiling as her smile is the reason for yours. She’ll blush after this.
Smile Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
40). Have you ever won an award?
41). What do you call your breasts?
42). What is your idea of perfect date?
43). Do you like Romantic movies? Which are your favorite ones?
44). What nickname / pet name you would call me lovingly by?
45). Do You Believe That Everything Happens For A Reason?
46). How Can You Describe Yourself In A Sentence?
47). Do You Think You’re Cute?
48). Have You Ever Hated Loving Someone?
49). Do You Have A Lucky Number?
50). Are You Romantic? Explain!
51). Can You Define Love In Your Own Way?
52). Have You Had Any Difficult Issues In Your Past?
53). How Ambitious Are You?
54). Have Your Parents Ever Disapproved Of Any Of Your Relationships?
55). Can You Name 5 Songs By The Beatles?
56). Do You Want To Be Married Right Now?
57). Do You Lead People On Just To Get Your Way?
58). Give The Names Of 3 Things You Love Most And Why?
5). FUTURE – Talk about your life , your future aspirations and the things you want to do with her when you are together. Girls love the guy who is future oriented and has the spark of making things happen in future.
Future Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
59). Describe Your Future Husband?
60). Describe your dream vacation?
61). Describe your future husband?
62). Describe your perfect day?
63). Describe your perfect vacation?
64). How would you define self confidence?
65). How would you introduce yourself?
66). How would you like to be remembered?
6). HER FAMILY – A Girl is closest to her family. Dad is a girl’s first hero and love. Talk about the bond she shares with her mom dad. Know your inlaws to have a great future.
Family Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
67). While growing up, how did you get along with the other members of your family?
68). How close are you to your family?
69). Have you started your own family? If so, describe them. If not, do you want to? Why or why not?
70). Do you have any brothers or sisters? How many?
7). FRIENDS – Talk about her bestest buddies and her hangout group. They are the people who know her the best. Know them. Talk about the pranks they play. About that guy she shares things with. It’ll make her feel free to talk about it to you.
Friends Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
71). Who are your top three lady heroes?
72). Who was your first crush?
73). What makes you feel afraid?
74). What’s your most embarrassing childhood memory?
75). What don’t you like so much?
76). If you got a (new) tattoo, what would it be of?
77). What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever done on a date?
78). What do you do for fun?
79). What are some things that make you really sad?
80). What are some things that make you really happy?
81). What’s one of your favorite habits you have?
82). What’s one of your favorite questions to ask new friends or to get a conversation going?
83). As a child, were you popular? Who were your friends, and what were they like?
84). Who are your friends? Do you have a best friend? Describe these people.
85). Do you have any old friends wou wish you could meet up with again?
86). If you had friends round what DVD’s would you have to watch?
87). Did you have any pretend or imaginary friends?
8). NAUGHTY TALKS – A girl can behave naughty only with her guy and for this she would never give you a hint. So, it is you who will have to initiate dirty talks with her or ask her a few naughty questions while texting her late at night because night is the time for couples to love. She may blush but she’ll love the excitement. Cuddling makes it cuter.
Dirty or Sexy Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
88). Who is the crudest person you know?
89). Would you consider speed dating?
90). What’s your most memorable kiss?
91). Describe the perfect blow job
92). Do you think you’re funny?
93). Describe how you fuck in one word.
94). What sport has the sexiest uniform?
95). Who did you take to prom?
96). Have any of your parents seen you naked as an adult?
97). When was the last time your masturbation was interrupted?
98). How old should someone be when they lose their virginity?
99). What celebrity couple would you watch have sex?
91). What are your thoughts on bisexuality?
92). What is the best ethnicity in bed?
93). What is your least favorite part of your body?
94). What is the ultimate first date don’t?
95). Do you think your parents are proud of you?
96). Why is foreplay more stimulating than the actual penis-in-vagina sex?
97). What is the funniest pet name you have been called by a lover?
98). Draw the perfect penis
99). Do you remember the first time seeing a porno?
100). How much can you say about an ex on a first date?
101). Have you ever or would you consider having Skype sex?
102). Why does every guy want to finish on my face?
103). What is the sexist piece of clothing?
104). What do you not get about girls?
105). Do you wish you’d lost your virginity to someone else?
106). Why does sex have that smell?
107). Why are men more willing to get naked at the drop of a hat?
108). Would you sell a pair of underwear to a stranger?
109). Did you top or bottom the first time you had sex with a man?
110). Have you mastered the art of dirty talk?
111). How do you feel about eye contact during oral sex?
112). Would you prefer a partner with a long or thick penis?
113). Would you ever experiment with a glory hole.
114). What do you wear to sleep?
115). How long do you wait to call someone after a first date?
116). If you could replace one actor from any sex scene in a movie, which movie would it be?
117). What kind of underwear are you wearing right now?
118). Do you remember the first time you had an orgasm?
119). What’s the most romantic city?
120). What do you prefer in bed; Dirty or sweet talk?
121). How many dates is enough before having sex with somebody?
122). What’s your most embarrassing erection?
123). Do you prefer doing it in the dark or in the light?
124). What do you think the sexiest fruit is?
125). What and who turns you on?
126). Where was your first time?
127). Have you ever played with a condom?
128). Have you ever seen anyone’s dick?
129). Would you ever have sex in the ocean?
130). Have you ever used lubricant?
131). How old were you when you got your first real kiss?
132). Who was the person you kissed that was the best?
133). Would you ever have phone sex?
134). What does the number “69″ mean to you?
135). Would you ever consider rubbing hot oil or cream all over your guy or girl?
136). What’s your kinky fetish?
137). How many people would you have sex with at once?
138). Have you ever had a dream about being gay or lesbian?
9). ROMANCE – Don’t ever leave a chance of romancing her be it at a date or a movie. Talk her about how she feels when you hold her hands publicly.
Love or Romance Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
139). Do you prefer a love marriage or an arranged marriage?
140). Give the names of 3 people you love most and why?
141). Give the names of 3 things you love most and why?
142). If you had to choose between peace, love and happiness; what would you choose and why?
143). Have you ever lost anyone you loved?
144). Ever been in true love?
145). Who do you love most in the world?
146). Do you believe in love at first sight?
147). Is it okay if I hate your family but I love you?
148). Do you love me more than your mom?
149). Is it better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all?
150). When did you fall in love with me?
151). What is the thing you love most about me?
152). If you have the chance, what would you probably say to your beloved one?
10). GADGETS – Iphone or Android device? Which thing catches her mind ? This will tell you about her living too. Whether she believes in simple living or a high standard one.
Gadgets Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
152). Do you own a digital camera?
153). Do you own a Smartphone?
154). Which company smartphone do you have?
155). What is the smartphone brands do you like?
156). Do you have PC or Computer?
157). Do you like live chat on laptop?
11). BEAUTY TREATMENTS – Discuss about beauty and the treatments or therapies that relieve the stress out. Plan out for a saloon date or spa date. This will amaze her because generally you don’t see boys talking about these things . Be that guy to talk about everything.
Beauty Things to Talk about with Your Girlfriend :
158). What is your favorite makeup item?
159). How many pairs of shoes do you own
160). What do you have in your purse?
161). What kind of clothing and fashion you find most appealing?
162). Are you happy with your life for the most part right now?
163). Can you describe your life with a six word sentence?
164). Describe Beauty in less than 10 words?
12). SURPRISES – Because she loves every small surprise you plan for her. And she goes crazy when you talk about it. Talk about what type of surprises she would love to have. And next time make her day by doing so. You can surprise her by sending some beautiful gifts without any occasion since she is not expecting. Is it not cool ? Here are some unique gifts ideas for her.
13). LONG AND STRONG HAIR – Tell her that you love those scattered flicks on her face and that you seem to get lost in them. Girls find it cute when a guy plays with her hair.
14). PERSONALITY – Tell her that you have not seen anyone as charming as her. Talk about her little things like eyes , lips , her gloss , her mascara. She would feel on cloud nine when you notice every miniature thing about her and you’ll win her heart forever.
15). HAPPINESS – Tell her that she’s your sunshine of happiness. It’s her happiness that makes you happy. Know about things that make her feel happy be it lunch or a movie or going to some adventure park or going out for a walk. Her happiness is now your priority. Make sure you make her up.
16). KEEP TALKING ABOUT HER AND THANK HER – Make her everyday special by talking only about her. Thank her for everything she has done for you. She is your everything now. It’s your job at the end to make sure she’s feeling special and beloved with you.
17). PROBLEMS – A girl is very fussy about sharing her problems with anyone. Make her feel at ease so that she shares them with you. Make her believe that she won’t face them alone from now and that you’ll always be by her side no matter what.
18). SECRETS – Share your deepest and dirtiest secrets with her. It’ll impress her and build a belief and trust in her. Soon you will see that she has started sharing every little secret with you . A girl has so many secrets . Know them all guy. You can play truth or dare game to know each other secrets. Here is a list of 100 truth or dare questions.
19). HER CHILDHOOD AND HER PAST – The best part of one’s life is childhood. Ask her to share some of her funny incidents. Share yours too. And you both will burst out laughing when you recall them . She’s going to enjoy it thoroughly.
20). DATE IDEAS – Talk to her about spending your weekends with her. Making movie plans. She’ll will love talking about how she loves to spend time with you, especially when it comes to new restaurants, movies, adventures etc. Plan your next date accordingly.
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21). VACATIONS – Discuss your idea of an adventurous trip or a romantic vacation. Discuss what all she expects on a vacation ? Beach , mountains or valleys ? And know her more. Take her to her favourite place next time.
22). TALK ABOUT HER VIEWS ON LIFE – Everyone sees life with a different view. It’s time to know her view and see whether you both posses a similar one. You’ll get to know about her life goals.
23). BRANDS – Girls are brand savy. They love when you talk about shopping. Be it Gucci , Prada ,LV, Burberry she wants them all in her wardrobe. Excite her by talking about them. She’ll feel like a princess.
24). CARS – Cars excite girls much more than they excite boys. Tell her about your favourite car which will soon be yours . She’ll love to go on a drive. Discuss about your dream cars and assure her that you’ll try buying one.
25). COOKING – Yes a girl would easily marry and fall in love with a guy who loves cooking. She’ll be excited to wake up on weekends to his favourite delicacies. Talk about what all you love cooking and what all she loves eating. Cook for her someday. Way to a woman’s heart is also through her stomach. Don’t miss this chance.
26). MARRIAGE – Talk about your views on carrying this relationship further. Ask her how does she expect the marriage to be? Her views of a destination wedding or a court marriage. Talk about making it the perfect day of both.I think you will love to read about 40 Best Honeymoon Destinations In The World.
27). CHILDREN – Deciding your children’s name and teasing each other then is so much fun. 2,3 or 4? Know her views about it. Names and what will you call each other in front of them. Here are 100 Funny Chinese Names. You can choose from these.
28). CLOTHING – She looks sassy in western but looks elegant in ethnic. Find out what she loves wearing. And tell her that she looks beautiful in whatever she wears. She carries it the Best. A girl is very conscious about her clothing and takes too much of time to decide. So assure her that she is the best.
29). COMPLIMENTS – Learn to compliment your girlfriend genuinely on what she adores and loves. Each compliment makes her heart flatter. She would certainly love to hear good things from you once she has fallen in love with you. To know about some lovely compliments you should also check 100 Sweet Things to Say to Your Girlfriend.
30). TALK ABOUT YOUR FEARS – They love it when you talk about your fear instead of dreaming and boasting about fancy and expensive things in life. It’ll make her feel closer because you are opening up the negative aspect of your nature to her without feeling bad about it.
These were some of the best things to talk with your girlfriend to make the best of time you spend with your girl and make your bound strong.